Saturday, October 25, 2008

Hospital visit #2

Well I woke up with a phone call from the hospital. They informed me that they didn't shoot me up with enough Rohgam(?). I have O neg blood and Dale has positive so I always need to get a rohgam shot everytime I have a baby. So I decided to go to the hospital with a mission. 1st- get the proper amount of rogam so I can possibly have more children. 2- get copies of the baby's ultrasound. 3- let them know that the PA on staff yesterday was a pervert. I honestly couldn't tell you how gross he was. After the 3rd comment I felt violated and so did my mother. He was going to give me a prescription for 3x's a day chest rubs from my husband to perform. A joke of course, but close your porno book and come back to reality. 4th- ok I am not going to wait for a bomb to go off, do a D and C... and now. What were you thinking letting me go home. I could die! That is not from pain either, hemmoraging, infection... Man I shouldn't have come to the hospital shell shock. I found myself agreeing to all sorts of stuff.
Ok so I was PO, and you don't mess with someone having a miscarriage. You liable to get your block knocked off. Also there were three guys lined up bored stiff when I was going in for my ultrasound. Bored as can be. So I guess they decided to congratulate all the people having miscarriages. I told them man aren't we all comedians today. Where is the tact?
So today when I went in with very low expectation, I get the completely professional very nice staff. Very understanding and nice as can be. Thank goodness! I told the nurse lady yesterday that I wasn't going to sit any longer and I am going home. Yeah she was pissed. I told her I have two kids to watch and my husband is going to work. So what am I suppose to do, I have been here for 5.5 hours. So she got the picture and started getting the ball moving.

Well I am recovering from the surgery. I am on heavy meds, so I pray I don't have to erase this post tommorrow bec I am not making sense. Love ya!

4 comments:

Jeff, Angela, and Brayden said...

Raina I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I just can't believe you were so sick and made it all the way to 17 weeks. Our prayers are with you and I know the Lord will give you peace and comfort. These trials only make us stronger and when we finally have our next babies we will be so much more grateful.

Jeff, Angela, and Brayden said...

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I cannot believe you were sick for 2 months and were already 17 weeks. I guess when our next babies come we will be even more grateful for them. You will be in our prayers.

Pam Price said...

WOW! I can't even start to comprehend what was going through that staff at the hospitals minds! Completely unprofessional, very insulting, and most of all extremely uncompassionate in a time that is very difficult for a woman and mother. I'm glad you went back to the hospital on a mission :) And glad the staff was better to you the second time.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time, Raina...I'm so sorry :(

Melisa said...

I canNOT believe that guy. To be such an insensitive jerk at such a difficult time is incomprehensible!

I'm glad you are an informed patient. When I had my miscarriage, I didn't know I was A neg and I never got a Rhogam shot. Bad news. Of course, I was in France at the time, so there was a lot of medical care I missed out on. I hope your recovery is fast.